IGNITE: SEXUAL MASTERY FOR MEN
A premium in-person program for high-performing men ready to unlock peak performance, confidence, and clarity by mastering their sexual energy.
This is about more than pleasure—it’s about purpose, presence, and power.
Most high-achieving men focus on building mental and physical strength—but overlook one of their greatest untapped resources: sexual energy.
When consciously cultivated, sexual energy fuels vitality, clarity, motivation, emotional resilience, and deep connection—qualities that enhance every area of life, from leadership to love.
Ignite: Sexual Mastery for Men is a one-of-a-kind, in-person program led by Ania White—an experienced Tantric bodyworker and the founder of SOM. This immersive, hands-on training empowers you to reclaim and refine your sexual energy, giving you confidence and presence both in and out of the bedroom.
Over four transformative weeks, you’ll learn powerful Taoist and Tantric practices to harness and channel your sexual energy, rather than unconsciously dissipate it. You’ll elevate your experience of intimacy while learning to transmute this potent life-force into focus, creativity, drive, and leadership.
By the end of the program, you’ll feel a quiet, inner confidence radiating into your relationships, work and everyday life.
IN THIS PROGRAM YOU WILL LEARN TO:
Master ejaculation control and experience full-body, non-ejaculatory orgasms
Channel your sexual energy into clarity, creativity and purpose
Release shame and conditioning around sexuality
Become more conscious and intentional with your sexual drives
Deepen pleasure and connection in your intimate relationships
Cultivate grounded, embodied masculine presence
THE FIVE FOUNDATIONS
This program is built on five foundational pillars that support not just your sexual transformation—but deep, sustainable shifts in how you move through life:
Breath
Learn foundational and advanced breathing techniques to circulate and contain energy, enhance stamina, and create deeper embodiment.
Movement
Build inner strength and vitality through Qi Gong and pelvic floor practices that support your energetic and sexual health.
Touch
Experience the power of intentional, conscious touch to expand sensation, intimacy, and self-awareness.
Sound
Use sound and vibration to move energy, express emotion, and deepen energetic resonance in both solo and partnered practice.
Awareness
Develop mindfulness tools to stay grounded, focused and fully present—in intimacy, in leadership and in life.
THE TRAINING WEEK BY WEEK
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Where are you located?All sessions are held in my private studio in Darlinghurst, Sydney.
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Do you offer online sessions?No, at this stage I only work in person from my private studio in Darlinghurst, Sydney.
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How do I book?New clients are required to book online first. Any subsequent sessions can be booked directly via email or phone.
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Do you accept cash?I require a 50% deposit paid when you book online. The outstanding amount can be paid in cash or card.
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What is Tantric Massage?Tantric massage is a sensual, full-body massage that brings together a variety of massage styles including classical massage, acupressure, Lomi Lomi, Tao, Ayurveda and bioenergetics intended to liberate your senses and stimulate the flow of Kundalini (sexual, life-force energy). During a Tantric massage your entire body is touched with great presence, including the genitals. This is not to create a sexual experience, but to acknowledge and bring awareness to one's sexual energy as an integrated part of the whole body. Touch, breath and placement of awareness are all used to circulate sexual energy (Kundalini – life force energy) around the body, so that you may feel a sense of pleasure, unity and connection. The massage is performed on a comfortable futon.
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What are the boundaries of Tantric massage?Tantric massage is an opportunity for you to connect more intimately with yourself rather than the practitioner. While there is an energetic exchange that happens during the practice, there is strictly no mutual touch, intercourse, oral sex or kissing involved in any sessions.
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Is it ok to reach orgasm during the massage?Yes you are welcome to orgasm, but it’s important that this is not the goal of the massage. You are invited to let go of performance, your concept of ‘orgasm’ and seeking heightened states of pleasure, and instead surrender to the experience of receiving and become intimately aware of sensations in the body.
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I want to experience a full body orgasm or multiple orgasms. Will this happen during the massage?Full-body and multiple orgasms may on occasion arise spontaneously, however the more you chase this, the less likely it is to happen. Letting go of expectations and goals, and instead bringing your presence, openness and curiosity to the session will lead to a far more exciting and expansive experience.
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How long should I book a session for?It takes time for the mind and body to fully relax and surrender into the practice so I recommend a 2 hour session for the best experience.
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Does Tantric massage help with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty reaching orgasm, painful sex and other sexual difficulties / concerns?For specific sexual concerns, I recommend exploring Somatic Sexology sessions.
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How often should I receive Tantric massage?Tantric massage can be an ongoing practice that you do simply out of love for yourself, with the intention to enrich your life and relationships. If you are experiencing some difficulties in your life or have a specific intention you are wanting to move toward, I recommend weekly or fortnightly sessions to help move stuck energy.
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Do I need experience to receive Tantric massage?No! All people are welcome to book a Tantric massage. Tantric massage/bodywork is just as much about relaxation as it is about spiritual or personal unfoldment. If you are a complete beginner and curious to learn more about Tantra, we will spend some time at the beginning of the session discussing basic Tantric philosophy, your intentions and practising specific breathing and mindfulness techniques.
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Do you offer couples sessions?Yes! Couples can book the Couples Tantric Massage Experience or if you would prefer to each have your own practitioner, book the Samaya with Two Practitioners or Spanda with Two Practitioners.
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What oils do you use?Natural almond oil or organic coconut oil.
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How do I prepare for the session?Once you book you will receive an email with all of the details on how to prepare for your session.
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Who is the course for?This training is open to everyone above the age of 18. It is designed for those curious about starting their journey into Tantra practice and embodied living.
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Do I need Tantra experience?No prior knowledge or experience with Tantra is required. You will receive foundational teachings in Tantric philosophy and practice which will be enough to get you started on your journey.
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Do I need bodywork/massage experience?No prior experience in massage or bodywork is required.
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Is there any nudity involved?Yes, during Tantric massage practice sessions there will be some nudity involved as the massage is given and received naked. This is to create a feeling of equality between the masseuse and recipient. While this may feel initially confronting, we make every effort to create an atmosphere of safety and respect amongst the group allowing any discomfort, embarrassment or shame you may feel to quickly dissolve.
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Is this course for men and women?Yes, this course is for all genders. We endeavour to keep an even balance of men and women as you will be practising in pairs. Women will be partnered with men to practise giving Lingam massage and men will be partnered with women to practise giving Yoni massage.
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Who will I be paired with for the practice sessions?During the practical massage sessions you will primarily be partnered with the opposite sex. However, on some occasions you may be required to work with the same sex.
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Do I have to attend every session?Given the paired format of the training, your attendance is very important not only for your own learning experience, but also for others in the group. If you are unable to attend one of the sessions, please communicate this in advance.
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Is this a Certified Training Program?Yes, you will receive a SOM Tantra 60 Hour Massage Practitioner Training Certificate upon completion. Certification is based on 90% attendance.
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Do I need to bring anything?You will be required to bring a sheet, large towel and lungi / sarong, notepad and pen. Wear comfortable clothing.
WHAT'S INCLUDED
This isn’t another online course. This is real-time, hands-on coaching with direct support and body-based integration—designed for lasting transformation.
In-Person Program
A 28-Day Program to transform your sexual self
6 x Private 1:1 Sessions
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4 x 2hr Tantra Massage Sessions
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1 x Edging Bodywork Session
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5hrs of In-Person Coaching
Weekly personalised WhatsApp check-ins between sessions to keep you on-track
Recorded daily practices across the 5 foundations
Powerful tools for mental clarity, emotional balance & energetic mastery
5 x Tantric practices to deepen intimacy, connection and pleasure
REAL CLIENTS, REAL FEEDBACK
“Thank you Ania, the sessions with you really have shaped my year in an overwhelmingly positive way.”
“Sessions with Ania have had a really positive effect at home. Bedroom life is so much more confident and exciting—and mental health has remained good.”
“I’ve felt so clear-headed and energised since our session. Something has definitely shifted.”
WHO AM I?
My name is Ania White — Tantric bodyworker and founder of SOM. Over the past decade, I’ve guided hundreds of men through transformational experiences that unlocked new levels of embodiment, sensation and self-awareness they didn’t know was possible.
My journey began in Berlin, where I trained in Tantric Massage and was later invited to join the renowned Kashima Studio in Charlottenburg. Since then, I’ve completed certifications in Somatic Sexology and Embodied Counselling and continue to attend workshops, seminars and courses to further my knowledge and understanding of sexuality and embodiment.
My approach is deeply influenced by both Eastern and Western mind-body traditions, drawing inspiration from teachers such as Christopher Wallis, Daniel Odier, Mantak Chia, Esther Perel, and Bessel van der Kolk. I’m also a dedicated Yoga and Qi Gong practitioner, committed to integrating these practices into daily life and my client work.
Alongside one-on-one sessions, I facilitate an in-depth Tantra Massage Training program, as well as workshops exploring Tantra, conscious sexuality and embodiment.
You can read some of my articles [here] and listen to my podcast conversation with kink educator Tashmia [here].
Ignite was born from my desire to go deeper with men. This program offers a structured, immersive pathway for men ready to embody a new edge of masculine power and sexual mastery.
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INVESTMENT
✔️ 28-Day Program
✔️ 6 x Private 1:1 Sessions
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4 x 2hr Tantra Massage Sessions
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1 x Edging Bodywork Session
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5hrs of In-Person Coaching
✔️ Weekly WhatsApp Check-Ins
✔️ Lifetime access to recorded daily practices across the 5 Foundations
✔️ Tools for mental clarity, emotional balance & energetic mastery
✔️ Practices to deepen intimacy, connection and pleasure
Valued at $7,870
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$1,750
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One up front payment of
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FAQs
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Where are you located?All sessions are held in my private studio in Darlinghurst, Sydney.
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Do you offer online sessions?No, at this stage I only work in person from my private studio in Darlinghurst, Sydney.
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How do I book?New clients are required to book online first. Any subsequent sessions can be booked directly via email or phone.
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Do you accept cash?I require a 50% deposit paid when you book online. The outstanding amount can be paid in cash or card.
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What is Tantric Massage?Tantric massage is a sensual, full-body massage that brings together a variety of massage styles including classical massage, acupressure, Lomi Lomi, Tao, Ayurveda and bioenergetics intended to liberate your senses and stimulate the flow of Kundalini (sexual, life-force energy). During a Tantric massage your entire body is touched with great presence, including the genitals. This is not to create a sexual experience, but to acknowledge and bring awareness to one's sexual energy as an integrated part of the whole body. Touch, breath and placement of awareness are all used to circulate sexual energy (Kundalini – life force energy) around the body, so that you may feel a sense of pleasure, unity and connection. The massage is performed on a comfortable futon.
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What are the boundaries of Tantric massage?Tantric massage is an opportunity for you to connect more intimately with yourself rather than the practitioner. While there is an energetic exchange that happens during the practice, there is strictly no mutual touch, intercourse, oral sex or kissing involved in any sessions.
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Is it ok to reach orgasm during the massage?Yes you are welcome to orgasm, but it’s important that this is not the goal of the massage. You are invited to let go of performance, your concept of ‘orgasm’ and seeking heightened states of pleasure, and instead surrender to the experience of receiving and become intimately aware of sensations in the body.
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I want to experience a full body orgasm or multiple orgasms. Will this happen during the massage?Full-body and multiple orgasms may on occasion arise spontaneously, however the more you chase this, the less likely it is to happen. Letting go of expectations and goals, and instead bringing your presence, openness and curiosity to the session will lead to a far more exciting and expansive experience.
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How long should I book a session for?It takes time for the mind and body to fully relax and surrender into the practice so I recommend a 2 hour session for the best experience.
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Does Tantric massage help with erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, difficulty reaching orgasm, painful sex and other sexual difficulties / concerns?For specific sexual concerns, I recommend exploring Somatic Sexology sessions.
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How often should I receive Tantric massage?Tantric massage can be an ongoing practice that you do simply out of love for yourself, with the intention to enrich your life and relationships. If you are experiencing some difficulties in your life or have a specific intention you are wanting to move toward, I recommend weekly or fortnightly sessions to help move stuck energy.
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Do I need experience to receive Tantric massage?No! All people are welcome to book a Tantric massage. Tantric massage/bodywork is just as much about relaxation as it is about spiritual or personal unfoldment. If you are a complete beginner and curious to learn more about Tantra, we will spend some time at the beginning of the session discussing basic Tantric philosophy, your intentions and practising specific breathing and mindfulness techniques.
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Do you offer couples sessions?Yes! Couples can book the Couples Tantric Massage Experience or if you would prefer to each have your own practitioner, book the Samaya with Two Practitioners or Spanda with Two Practitioners.
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What oils do you use?Natural almond oil or organic coconut oil.
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How do I prepare for the session?Once you book you will receive an email with all of the details on how to prepare for your session.
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Who is the course for?This training is open to everyone above the age of 18. It is designed for those curious about starting their journey into Tantra practice and embodied living.
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Do I need Tantra experience?No prior knowledge or experience with Tantra is required. You will receive foundational teachings in Tantric philosophy and practice which will be enough to get you started on your journey.
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Do I need bodywork/massage experience?No prior experience in massage or bodywork is required.
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Is there any nudity involved?Yes, during Tantric massage practice sessions there will be some nudity involved as the massage is given and received naked. This is to create a feeling of equality between the masseuse and recipient. While this may feel initially confronting, we make every effort to create an atmosphere of safety and respect amongst the group allowing any discomfort, embarrassment or shame you may feel to quickly dissolve.
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Is this course for men and women?Yes, this course is for all genders. We endeavour to keep an even balance of men and women as you will be practising in pairs. Women will be partnered with men to practise giving Lingam massage and men will be partnered with women to practise giving Yoni massage.
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Who will I be paired with for the practice sessions?During the practical massage sessions you will primarily be partnered with the opposite sex. However, on some occasions you may be required to work with the same sex.
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Do I have to attend every session?Given the paired format of the training, your attendance is very important not only for your own learning experience, but also for others in the group. If you are unable to attend one of the sessions, please communicate this in advance.
-
Is this a Certified Training Program?Yes, you will receive a SOM Tantra 60 Hour Massage Practitioner Training Certificate upon completion. Certification is based on 90% attendance.
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Do I need to bring anything?You will be required to bring a sheet, large towel and lungi / sarong, notepad and pen. Wear comfortable clothing.